One of the greatest gifts we give is that of listening to others with the respect, patience, and attention with which we want to be heard. As you speak, hear your words in your head and in your heart. When listening to others, hear their words in your head and in your heart. Allow someone to finish speaking before you jump in so you do not interrupt them or make them feel crowded or cut off. Listen to others with a quiet mind, without thinking about a response. Truly listening to another person is establishing an emotional connection with the person talking.